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Get Instant Access to my 10 Money Loves Me Manifesting Methods Guide &gt;<\/span>\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/aleasemichelle.com\/moneylovesme\">HERE<\/a>.]<\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u201cNo one would ever pay that much for my coaching program.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u201cI&#8217;m not a techie person.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u201cI\u2019ll never be a 6-figure earner.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">If you\u2019ve ever heard these statements come out of your mouth\u2014or even in your head\u2014then you\u2019re engaging in a damaging habit known as negative self-talk. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">By telling yourself these lies (and yes, they are lies) you\u2019re reinforcing the beliefs that go along with them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[video_player type=&#8221;youtube&#8221; style=&#8221;1&#8243; dimensions=&#8221;560&#215;315&#8243; width=&#8221;560&#8243; height=&#8221;315&#8243; align=&#8221;center&#8221; margin_top=&#8221;0&#8243; margin_bottom=&#8221;20&#8243; ipad_color=&#8221;black&#8221;]aHR0cHM6Ly95b3V0dS5iZS9tNm92V2dlcktrWQ==[\/video_player]<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">What you visualize and believe is what becomes true.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Tell yourself that you\u2019re not good with money, and you won\u2019t be.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"> Believe that budgets are horrible chores to be reviled, and you\u2019ll resist creating one. Convince yourself that you can\u2019t earn a 6-figure income, and you won\u2019t.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">It\u2019s not \u201cthe secret.\u201d It\u2019s a scientific fact. <\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Known as a self-fulfilling prophecy, this kind of self-talk results in poor performance simply because <strong><em>we act as if it\u2019s already true. <\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">If you tell yourself that you\u2019ll never be a 6-figure earner, you will not do the things that 6-figure business owners do. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">You won\u2019t work to grow your mailing list (\u201cNo one reads my emails anyway\u201d), you won\u2019t increase your coaching rates (\u201cIt\u2019s not like I\u2019m some top-earning coach\u201d), and you won\u2019t build a brand worthy of a 6-figure income (\u201cA beautiful brand isn\u2019t necessary at this income level\u201d).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">By contrast, if you act and think as if you already are a 6-figure earner, you\u2019ll approach your business quite differently. Your confidence level will increase. You\u2019ll present a very different brand to your prospective clients.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"> You\u2019ll go out of your way to connect with those who can and will afford to pay your higher rates.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>How to Combat Negative Self-Talk<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">The first step toward changing your negative self-talk is to simply acknowledge that you do it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"> Tick a mental checkbox every time you catch yourself making negative statements, whether out loud or in your head.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Make a note of the ones that come up most often for you, and identify their origin if you can. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">For example, if your ex-husband continually berated you for your spending habits, chances are your \u201cI\u2019m no good with money\u201d mantra can be laid right at his feet.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"> It\u2019s time to turn that thinking around.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">The next time you catch yourself saying \u201cI\u2019m no good with money,\u201d take a minute to recall 5 instances where you were good with money. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Maybe you paid off your credit cards or saved for a house or built an emergency fund. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Rephrase your self-talk to, \u201cI used to be bad with money [if that\u2019s true], but now I make smart choices to achieve my goals.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Just as negative self-talk becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy, so does positive self-talk. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Reframe your thinking, and your business finances will certainly improve.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Money blocks will keep you from earning what you\u2019re worth, kill your confidence and damage your self-esteem.<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Here\u2019s how to deal with it\u2026 Grab my 10 Money Loves Me Manifesting Methods<\/span>\u00a0<strong><a href=\"http:\/\/aleasemichelle.com\/moneylovesme\">HERE<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/aleasemichelle.com\/money-loves-me\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-1498\" src=\"http:\/\/aleasemichelle.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Money-Loves-Me-BLog.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"209\" srcset=\"http:\/\/aleasemichelle.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Money-Loves-Me-BLog.png 1200w, http:\/\/aleasemichelle.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Money-Loves-Me-BLog-300x157.png 300w, http:\/\/aleasemichelle.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Money-Loves-Me-BLog-768x402.png 768w, http:\/\/aleasemichelle.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Money-Loves-Me-BLog-1024x536.png 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[NOTE: Bust Out of Your Money Blocks! 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